You Can Do and Have ANYTHING You Want in Life.
HEY BAES! It’s time to get you guys up to date and talk about the present. Now that you know more about my journey so far, I want to talk about life right now…
The last 5 months have been incredible. I cannot believe how life has changed since just July when I left my previous business- which was the biggest risk I ever took- and turned out to be the best decision I’ve made in my life so far!. I wake up everyday SOO SO grateful for having the balls to do what I did, I am really LOVING life!!!! I don’t feel like I’ve ever really loved life? Is that weird? Obviously we all have those moments where we are like’ Wow, life is good’- Like the moment when Jack asked me to be his girlfriend, or when you have a great night out with your best friends, or an amazing celebration with your family. They were great moments. But to wake up every- single- day with a continuous and genuine LOVE for just being on this planet, that is new to me. I see life as I have never seen it before.
My New Found Confidence…
Every day something is changing for me- I am growing as a person, I have STOPPED thinking I am not capable of things that… I have just never done before. I have stopped putting out to the universe that ‘I can’t’ or that I am a certain type of way so certain things will never be achievable… The past 14 odd years I always called myself ‘shy’ and my family knew me as ‘shy’. I’m not shy, I told myself I was shy, so I became shy. I was ‘doing‘ shy. If you met me 5 months, maybe even 4 months ago- I would have struggled to talk to you. My brain would be thinking ‘How can I get out of this uncomfortable situation? I want to go home, please stop talking to me’. A lot of people will have took this for rudeness, but I was just very short of confidence and found meeting new people VERY, VERY hard. Does anybody else hate meeting new people? It’s awful, it stops you from having any kind of social life!
Thankfully I can now talk to ANYBODY. Throw me in a room with a stranger? Ill chew their ears off! I-LOVE-TALKING! (LOL). I really love testing myself now too- I like doing things that I never used to do, Things that may seem very simple and very easy to some of you guys but were very hard for me. Just as simple as starting the conversation first, Asking people about themselves, Sitting next to people I don’t know, Booking my own doctors appointments (yes I know! I am such a baby) & also driving to places that I’m not familiar with. That’s a BIGGY for me, I get major travel anxiety!!! Now-I drive all over the place- and I’m completely fine!
I have thrown myself into a business where I HAVE to develop as a person, which has been the best thing I ever did for me as a human being. I sat very comfortably where I was on a personal development level for a very long time, but now- I am light-years ahead of the person I was just a few months ago. For me, This is the best thing I could ever accomplish, It far outweighs any financial or materialist gain I have had from my new venture. I am just constantly breaking down barriers, and becoming overall a better person. What’s even better is that through my work- I help other people do exactly the same thing. There is nothing that can stop me from achieving everything that I want to achieve now. Nothing.
HAPPINESS, GRATITUDE & AFFIRMATION
Happiness is an easy one for me now, I am content with my life- I am on the journey to success, I am happy with who I am as a person. I am still learning and still growing but I am on the right tracks to being the best version of myself. Nobody is perfect, But we can all better ourselves in more ways than one. This can make you happier within, in more ways than you can ever imagine. Happiness is an inside job.
It is very easy to get carried away with what we want in our lives, and often we don’t take time to think about what we do have. This is something that I now put into my everyday life, Gratitude. Every night before I go to bed I think about all the things I am grateful for. My bed, my families health, my boyfriend, my house. ‘Gratitude turns denial into acceptance, chaos into order, confusion into clarity. It makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow’. Be grateful for what you already have, and more good things will attract there way into your life.
Affirmation is what I am doing right now. I am telling myself that I-AM-GREAT. That I-AM-CONFIDENT. We need to tell ourselves these things more, As cringey as it is- And even when we are not feeling like it. Just stand in the mirror and tell yourself how great you are. What you think… you become. Everytime I have to talk to people I get a little flush of panic and then I remind myself that I AM CONFIDENT, I FIND IT EASY TO SPEAK TO NEW PEOPLE, I KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT, I AM PASSIONATE ABOUT WHAT I DO.
If you are having a bad day, Do not spindle into a web of negative thoughts. Being negative is the easy option… It is SO easy to start going off on one about ‘How bad our day is’ and ‘ How shit this week’s been’ and everything in between, But all we are doing is allowing ourselves to feel even worse- And when we feel worse we’re then behaving worse. When we are behaving worse- We’re doing worse, And so then we’re just attracting more and more negatives into our lives. Go down the more difficult route and when you are feeling pissed off, or upset or frustrated. Change the subject. ‘Ahhh, I am so happy that my family is healthy’ Or ‘Ahhhh I am so happy that I have a house to go home to’. In order to change our lives, for good. We need to change our mindset. In order to have something that we have NEVER had before, We have to do something that we have NEVER done before.
If you would really like to start changing your mindset, Your life, your thoughts, Your anxiety or any of what I have spoken about today- I would really recommend these self development books. Even if you are the most POSITIVE PERSON EVER! You can only grow from reading these books!
- THE SECRET
- THE LIFE CHANGING MAGIC OF NOT GIVING A F*CK
- THE CHIMP PARADOX
- GET RICH, LUCKY BITCH
- RICH DAD, POOR DAD
If you read any, Please let me know your thoughts!
Until Next Sunday….